WHAT MISTRESS OFFER
THAT WIFE DOESN'T?
This question has been a burden in my heart for days till I
deem it fit to ink something about the subject.
I have always wondered in time past why is it that some men
have pretty wives in their quiver yet they engage in the act of extra marital
business?
Just like I'll do on any other subject, I set my effort on a
top gear to conduct research as to what do men get from their mistresses
outside that they can't get from their women inside.
I came out with these:
COOKIES: What do I
mean by cookies? By cookies I mean sex. Lol. I found out from my research that
some women deny their husbands cookies. Maybe due to their busy schedule or
perhaps low libido.
But the fact remain that when these men could
not cope with erratic sex supply from their women they go out for a complement.
The role of sex in
marriage can't be over emphasized. And it shouldn't be something you use time
table for. I heard that some women do give their husband sex time table. If
this is true, it's uncalled for.
The issue of the woman having low libido can be as a result
of under secretion of a certain sex hormone. And this require urgent medical
attention.
Therefore, the man can also help the woman to fight the
situation rather than using that as an excuse to be having out of marriage
affairs.
Some other time the man also maybe too demanding because of
over secretion of another sex hormone in his system such that the woman can't
cope with his sex demand. I believe this one is also treatable.
One of the benefit
of marriage is for the partner to help each other rather than using their
respective weaknesses as an excuse to commit error.
PACKAGING: This is
one of the reason men look for mistress outside the marriage. Research has
shown that most women cease from making themselves attractive to their men
after one or two kids.
But these ladies
neglect the fact that it was their appearance that first attracted them to
their men. Some ladies stop controlling their diet after marriage hence lost
shape.
All this can make the man look out for a
younger lady who is smarter in stature and have good sense of packaging.
As a woman you must
not stop romancing your husband. You should know what turn him on.
However, as a man you
should be able to always help your woman to always be on point for you. If
she's gaining weight help her to the gym. And ensure she does it religiously.
If she's not
packaging herself like she used to do before you met, tell her and ask if
there's any way you could be of help.
You're together to
help each other. So stop using your wife lack of packaging as an excuse to
sleep around with women like dog.
Moreover, the truth
is that some men just love varieties. Most time you realize that the women they
are having affairs with outside are not as pretty as their wives. But for the
fact that they love varieties, they still keep mistress outside.
Most of these men are
greedy and will never be contented with what they have.
While some lack
self-control. They cannot withstand women seduction for a second without
unwrapping their laps.
You are free to
contribute, if you think there are some other reasons while men keep mistress
outside. Kindly drop your comment below.
Still remain my
humble self, Akerele, Odunayo Sam.
Remember keep being
you and keep being true.
© AKERELE, Odunayo
Samuel, 2018.
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