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WHY I'M SO SURE I'LL MARRY A VIRGIN


WHY I'M SO SURE I'LL MARRY A VIRGIN.

One of my younger ones put it to me one day; "do you love to marry a virgin?"
And my response to his question triggered this write up.

I told him I don't have any other choice than to marry a virgin.
 Even if I closed my eyes why choosing the lady to marry she would definitely still be a virgin.

The guy was flummoxed by this saying. "How can you be so sure sir?"
Then he narrated the story of a Pastor's daughter whose mother thought she was a virgin until a question was raised in one of their church meeting.

 "While the father was preaching he asked, if you're a youth and you know you're still intact come out:  you can't imagine the depth of disappointment on both the pastor and his wife faces when they realised that their daughter didn't come out."

In other words, he thought even if you want to marry in the household of faith the largest percentage of them are no longer intact.

That was what brought about his story of the Pastor's daughter, I opined.
Now, I asked him who's a virgin?
A virgin is one who has her hymen (a fold of mucous membrane partly closing the orifice of the vagina) intact. Scientifically defined though.

This intact hymen is the basis of virginity test. In virginity's test all they look out to is unruptured hymen. If the hymen is not intact they assumed that the lady in question has had a prior sexual experience which may not be true.

Virginity test is not 100% perfect, because this hymen may be ruptured through rigorous exercise, bicycle riding, masturbation, mountain climb and so on.
It simply means a lady may had no prior sexual experience but still not have her hymen intact.

However, there are some ladies who have had years of sexual experience and they still have their hymen intact.
 What's their secret?

It's not far-fetched, what they did is called hymen reconstruction surgery which is called; hymenoplasty or hymenorrhaphy.

There are some ladies out there who are technically virgin but they engage in other forms of sexual behavior like oral, anal sexual intercourse and heavy sexual fondling. That is, they don't indulge in vagina intercourse. Can we refer to those as virgin? Definitely no.

Then, back to me marry a virgin at all cost. What do I mean by whoever I marry is a virgin?

I'm a saint , and belong to the household of faith. And the last time I checked our family record there's no single lady that's not a virgin in our family.

Since I'm gonna marrying from my own very family that's a surety that definitely, I'll marry a virgin.
Someone says he doesn't understand!
Okay! This is it, the bible says if any man be in Christ he is a new being old things are gone, look all things have become new.
That means all the ladies in my family are new born.

As a matter of fact, they don't have past. Just like a day old baby girl is a virgin so is all the single ladies in the house hold of faith. Why? Because they are new born.
Now you can see that I don't have choice than to marry a virgin except I'll not marry from the household of faith which is not possible.

Moreover, the idea of conducting virginity test on ladies is ridiculous.
A lady must be embraced for who she is
Rather than looking for a hymen-intact virgin whose heart has been corrupted, isn't it better to marry a lady of a pure heart but not technically a virgin.

However, a lady must be accepted for who she is.
 You can do well to make comment or contribution in the comment box below.

Remember, keep being you and keep being true.
Till we meet next time, I remain my humble self AKERELE Odunayo Samuel.

Tag: #virgin #womenofvirtue #purityispower #love #faith #Iwrite

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