Akerele Odunayo Samuel

WHAT MISTRESS OFFER THAT WIFE DOESN'T? This question has been a burden in my heart for days till I deem it fit to ink something about the subject. I have always wondered in time past why is it that some men have pretty wives in their quiver yet they engage in the act of extra marital business? Just like I'll do on any other subject, I set my effort on a top gear to conduct research as to what do men get from their mistresses outside that they can't get from their women inside. I came out with these: COOKIES: What do I mean by cookies? By cookies I mean sex. Lol. I found out from my research that some women deny their husbands cookies. Maybe due to their busy schedule or perhaps low libido.  But the fact remain that when these men could not cope with erratic sex supply from their women they go out for a complement. The role of sex in marriage can't be over emphasized. And it shouldn't be something you use time table for. I heard that some women...

WHO ARE YOU? I’m honoured to be standing before these great scholars today. Some years ago, I was a secondary school student like you. I’m glad to announce to you that today, I’m still a student. Because whether you are in school or not in one way or the other you are learning and whoever is still learning is a student. Besides, all of us, young or old, big or small, rich or poor, tall or short, dwarf or giant are students in the school of life. Can you now see that I’m a student? The topic to be considered today is, “WHO ARE YOU?” Look at the person sitting next to you and ask him or her “Who are you?” Turn to another person and ask the same question, when I say “who are you?” I do not mean your nomenclature either generic or specific; or your gender, either male or female. I’m as well not interested in knowing your complexion, dark or fair. But I simply mean who are you? When I ask who are you? To win in the race of life will be a little bit hard when one does not k...

IT MATTER! The topic to be discussed today is ‘it matter’, but the question is, what matters? Join me as we look into this deeply.  When I was in secondary school my Agricultural science teacher taught us then GERMINATION and the factor responsible for growth. Some of the factors are: viable seeds, moisture or water, nutrient (soil) and air (oxygen) When I meditatively considered these factors I realized that not even one out of them is un-important. If any of them isn’t available then the seed growth or germination is in jeopardy. Applying this into our lives’ journey as humans, it is evident that some factors also responsible for our own growth in every endeavors of life. Some take this serious while some others don’t.  When I say growth I do not mean increase in the number of age. Neither do I mean increase in stature. We grow in business, career, and ministry and so on. For us to grow in life we need to take these factors seriously. For instance the viabil...