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WHAT MISTRESS OFFER THAT WIFE DOESN'T?


WHAT MISTRESS OFFER THAT WIFE DOESN'T?

This question has been a burden in my heart for days till I deem it fit to ink something about the subject.
I have always wondered in time past why is it that some men have pretty wives in their quiver yet they engage in the act of extra marital business?
Just like I'll do on any other subject, I set my effort on a top gear to conduct research as to what do men get from their mistresses outside that they can't get from their women inside.
I came out with these:

COOKIES: What do I mean by cookies? By cookies I mean sex. Lol. I found out from my research that some women deny their husbands cookies. Maybe due to their busy schedule or perhaps low libido.
 But the fact remain that when these men could not cope with erratic sex supply from their women they go out for a complement.
The role of sex in marriage can't be over emphasized. And it shouldn't be something you use time table for. I heard that some women do give their husband sex time table. If this is true, it's uncalled for. 

The issue of the woman having low libido can be as a result of under secretion of a certain sex hormone. And this require urgent medical attention.
Therefore, the man can also help the woman to fight the situation rather than using that as an excuse to be having out of marriage affairs.

Some other time the man also maybe too demanding because of over secretion of another sex hormone in his system such that the woman can't cope with his sex demand. I believe this one is also treatable.
  One of the benefit of marriage is for the partner to help each other rather than using their respective weaknesses as an excuse to commit error.

PACKAGING: This is one of the reason men look for mistress outside the marriage. Research has shown that most women cease from making themselves attractive to their men after one or two kids.
But these ladies neglect the fact that it was their appearance that first attracted them to their men. Some ladies stop controlling their diet after marriage hence lost shape.
 All this can make the man look out for a younger lady who is smarter in stature and have good sense of packaging.

As a woman you must not stop romancing your husband. You should know what turn him on.
However, as a man you should be able to always help your woman to always be on point for you. If she's gaining weight help her to the gym. And ensure she does it religiously.
If she's not packaging herself like she used to do before you met, tell her and ask if there's any way you could be of help.

You're together to help each other. So stop using your wife lack of packaging as an excuse to sleep around with women like dog.

Moreover, the truth is that some men just love varieties. Most time you realize that the women they are having affairs with outside are not as pretty as their wives. But for the fact that they love varieties, they still keep mistress outside.

Most of these men are greedy and will never be contented with what they have.
While some lack self-control. They cannot withstand women seduction for a second without unwrapping their laps.

You are free to contribute, if you think there are some other reasons while men keep mistress outside. Kindly drop your comment below.
Still remain my humble self, Akerele, Odunayo Sam.
Remember keep being you and keep being true.

© AKERELE, Odunayo Samuel, 2018.


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